Traditional marriage (Poll)
Just a fast poll to know what most of you think of this subject ” traditional marriage ” are u with it or not ..
In short ;Traditional marriage: Is when a Man ask the Women in his family (sis, mum, aunt ) to seek him a bride then going on with that
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May 20th, 2008 at 9:32 am
with with with!
chikas last blog post..On being a gramma.. for the 5th time!!
May 20th, 2008 at 10:37 am
Salam
As for me , if i didnt chose the girl myself, am afraid that my mother will chose her for me , however, i chose and More than Happy With My Choice …
But to make things clear in general :
If you did the choice , then you should prepare yourself for hearing comments from your parents the first you had an argument , comments like
انت اللي بدك اياها , مزبوط؟؟
مش لو اخذت فلانة احسن ؟؟
الخ … الخ … الخ
Thanks God , I didnt Hear such comments yet , cuz things are fine between us so far ( and hopefully it will remain like this )
On the other hand , if a mom chose the girl for you , you wont hear a single comment from your parents even if your wiofe set you on fire :D
Sorry for long reply , Peace,
LUNARs last blog post..مش عارف .. هو هبل ؟؟ والا تياسة؟؟ والا فصمان
May 20th, 2008 at 2:06 pm
Sure not…
No one knows who is your best life partner but you…
No one can pick the right choice for you but you…
May 20th, 2008 at 2:21 pm
Muaffaq you cannot soolve the dilemma of traditional vs untraditional marriage just like that in a simple poll!! The issue has been around ever since the untraditional marriage seized to exist!
To answer your question I’m not against it as a whole. I’m only against the oldest version of it where the guy (and typically the girl too) have no saying in it, where parents arrange everything for both of them.
But the lighter version of it, where for example some of your female relatives point you to potential girls who they see good for you and then you carry on from there, this is perfectly fine with me.
May 20th, 2008 at 2:38 pm
Ok :)
LUNAR
Thanks for ur input :)
Naryat
as u like :p
May 20th, 2008 at 2:43 pm
Exactly :) ,
am just get voting here to talk about it, am not solve it yet , it need more talk than a simple poll :) am with u in the way u talk about , :)
and Yes traditional marriage is changeable .. things different now
May 20th, 2008 at 3:46 pm
2aiwan…
fa tathneyatan 3ala kalamkom, a traditional marriage 3enna belma3na el sharkasi huwe el zawaj elli el 2ahel ma byetda5alu feyo… in a traditional Circassian marriage (5a6eefeh) a guy makes an agreement with the girl, either directly or through a messenger, on a time and a date after they get to know each other and decide that they want to get married, and in the specific time the guys relatives (all women) meet the girl in the agreed place and pick her up and hide her at the house of one of the elderly while the guy goes to hide at the house of one of his close friends (far away from the 3aroos) untill kateb el ktab and the wedding…
So as we see, el mama ma btetda5al abadan :-D
wa dumtum…
May 20th, 2008 at 9:01 pm
Sorry I can’t participate in the poll. First, it is the man who asks a woman for marriage not vice versa … Sah?
:D
Monas last blog post..Tatreez (Cross-stitch Embroidery) : Important Symbol Of Palestinian Culture
May 20th, 2008 at 9:54 pm
i agree totally….its better…for me at least
and I speak from experience
Ghasheemas last blog post..I’ve learned…
May 20th, 2008 at 10:59 pm
yeah I know that :) it seem we soon will do that :D ne5tof al girls :D
Mona
hehe yeah u have a point :)
Ghasheema
good to know that ;)
May 21st, 2008 at 12:31 am
زواج تشات
زواج انترنت
زواج طيارة
زواج رحلة باص
زواج تقليدي
زواج روك آن رول
زواج ميتالجي
زواج مودرن
زواج بوي فريند وغيرل فريند
المهم يكون في زواج في النهاية، المهم إنو يكون في تفاهم بين التنين، ويكون هدفهم انشاء أسرة صالحة، وتربية أولادهم مو يزوتوهن بالشارع.
علوشs last blog post..غربان آخر الليل !!.
May 21st, 2008 at 6:49 pm
I am with it … marriage is a very complex issue .. there is no one single receipt for the successful choice, whatever works for you may not work with me, or with someone else, if you are able to establish a consistent, trustworthy, respectful and passionate relationship , then, you are there.. regardless wither you do it through traditional marriage, or in the dunes club.
Amjads last blog post..الــشــيــك
May 21st, 2008 at 8:31 pm
i don’t like this way for marriage, but finally, kolo bendareg ta7t “el naseeb wa al kadar”
nadas last blog post..قصة بعبرة
May 22nd, 2008 at 10:23 am
يا مووو
Amjad
well said :)
Nada
I don’t list it in Nassb and Qader ….
May 22nd, 2008 at 2:12 pm
ساعة أي وساعة تؤ
لسى ما اعتمدت
بكرة بس عنس باخد قرار أنو خلصونا بقى عطونا عريس شو ما كان ..خخخخ
هلأ منجي للجد .. لكل تجربة خصوصيتها ونقطة عالسطر
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May 22nd, 2008 at 4:42 pm
والله انو تقليدي او موتقليدي انا بقول حسب الحاله بشكل عام يعني اذا الانسان ما كان مرتبط بأي علاقه ومجهز اموره على اساس الارتباط
اكيد بالاخير على الاغلب رح يكون زواجه تقليدي
انا بالنسبه الي المهم اتجوز واكون مرتاح ومبسوط
May 29th, 2008 at 9:49 pm
i am with adoosh….i am with the lighter version of a traditional marriage…it is not really any different than people in the west setting their freinds up for dates….right??
sams last blog post..who put soap in my food??