Comments on: A Question about Being loved http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/ Muoffaq Al Qabbani blog,Life issues and thoughts Mon, 06 Oct 2008 22:34:23 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6 By: Lasto adri *Blue* http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-15338 Lasto adri *Blue* Sun, 16 Dec 2007 21:35:42 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-15338 i know that feeling ya Qabbani, it makes one feel bad... the worst feeling of all. :ermm: bas give urself a chance.. sometimes it turns into something begad :wub: i know that feeling ya Qabbani,
it makes one feel bad… the worst feeling of all. :ermm:

bas give urself a chance.. sometimes it turns into something begad :wub:

]]> By: Batoul http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-15075 Batoul Thu, 13 Dec 2007 18:27:31 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-15075 You have to be honest to them OR you could just act neutral and like you dont understand until they give up on their own. Humans do get bored and have limits.. You have to be honest to them OR you could just act neutral and like you dont understand until they give up on their own. Humans do get bored and have limits..

]]> By: Jasmina http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-15073 Jasmina Thu, 13 Dec 2007 11:51:49 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-15073 Wleeeeeee :pinch: Wleeeeeee :pinch:

]]> By: mala2e6 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-15071 mala2e6 Thu, 13 Dec 2007 08:13:23 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-15071 ايش يا عنيف قلت لي اللي بيحبو كتير يا عم القلب و ما يريد و العين و ما تشوف انجوي هالحب مرات الواحد بيحب يخدع نفسه و يفكر انهالطرف التاني بيحبه بس هاي مش مشكلتك اخرتهم يفهموا ايش يا عنيف
قلت لي اللي بيحبو كتير

يا عم
القلب و ما يريد و العين و ما تشوف

انجوي هالحب مرات الواحد بيحب يخدع نفسه و يفكر انهالطرف التاني بيحبه بس هاي مش مشكلتك

اخرتهم يفهموا

]]> By: Naryat http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14999 Naryat Wed, 12 Dec 2007 15:28:25 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14999 Qabbani, yyyyyyyep! hard, but seems la ma5raj :pouty: 7usam, hala 3ammi looooooooool :w00t: Qabbani,
yyyyyyyep! hard, but seems la ma5raj :pouty:

7usam,
hala 3ammi looooooooool :w00t:

]]> By: wonders http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14991 wonders Wed, 12 Dec 2007 09:54:03 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14991 You have to be honest and let them know. this person will hurt now of course, but it is less pain than later on when they love you even more. Or you can just avoid them :) kidding! You have to be honest and let them know. this person will hurt now of course, but it is less pain than later on when they love you even more.

Or you can just avoid them :) kidding!

]]> By: sam http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14989 sam Wed, 12 Dec 2007 07:55:27 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14989 ah this is is a tough one..i've experienced it both ways numerous times..and i still can not give an advice..im just so glad that now i have the sorry i am happily married line... :cool: :blush: :blink: :pinch: :sleeping: :tongue: :angel: ah this is is a tough one..i’ve experienced it both ways numerous times..and i still can not give an advice..im just so glad that now i have the sorry i am happily married line… :cool: :blush: :blink: :pinch: :sleeping: :tongue: :angel:

]]> By: dandooneh http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14988 dandooneh Wed, 12 Dec 2007 07:37:03 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14988 well thats something touching , actually am facing this problem from both sides , to love and be loved .. its hard to be loved by a person that u dont like and have nth. to do with it , and hardest when u love a person that he's always there but u cant reach him !!! :sad: well thats something touching , actually am facing this problem from both sides , to love and be loved ..
its hard to be loved by a person that u dont like and have nth. to do with it , and hardest when u love a person that he’s always there but u cant reach him !!!
:sad:

]]> By: Qabbani http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14934 Qabbani Tue, 11 Dec 2007 23:16:52 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14934 <b>7usam</b> Your welcome <b>Maher</b> i hate to do that but seems all recommend that ... <b>Amjad</b> Oh man zaman 3ank :) welcome back , its as u say man , but in some how i cant stand being with them even try to avoid <b>chikapappi</b> they love me i dont love them AT ALL <b>علوش</b> ما اعم اادر , اد ما حاولت اني ابعد ما اجتمع في\فيهم ما عم اادر طيئهم ولا اني استمتع بوجودهم , خلص فيهم شغلات ما بحبها ولا بإدر استوعبها بس ما عم تصل اشاراتي انه انا مابدي ياهم و شو ما عملت معهم ما بزعلو ولا بخفو <b>lilaa</b> Thanks :) 7usam
Your welcome

Maher
i hate to do that but seems all recommend that …

Amjad
Oh man zaman 3ank :) welcome back ,

its as u say man , but in some how i cant stand being with them even try to avoid

chikapappi

they love me i dont love them AT ALL

علوش

ما اعم اادر , اد ما حاولت اني ابعد ما اجتمع في\فيهم ما عم اادر طيئهم ولا اني استمتع بوجودهم , خلص فيهم شغلات ما بحبها ولا بإدر استوعبها بس ما عم تصل اشاراتي انه انا مابدي ياهم
و شو ما عملت معهم ما بزعلو ولا بخفو
lilaa
Thanks :)

]]> By: Qabbani http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14933 Qabbani Tue, 11 Dec 2007 23:06:34 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14933 <b>Garaba</b> I know :blush: <b>Naryat</b> am talking about normal life :) , the part about if i mean a girl , yeah i know this Really will i have been in such situation and end it right , 7amdellah about the other kinds :) thank you a lot i got ur Idea, seems no matter how much i avoid this solution it seems that all agree it is the best to do ... <b>Hisham</b> yeah alsana 7elo :D ... but its not a girl problem :D <b>bahloul</b> thanks man :) and tell u its not a girl ... :P <b>holacarino</b> seems no other way than that :( Garaba
I know :blush:

Naryat
am talking about normal life :) ,
the part about if i mean a girl , yeah i know this Really will i have been in such situation and end it right , 7amdellah

about the other kinds :) thank you a lot i got ur Idea, seems no matter how much i avoid this solution it seems that all agree it is the best to do …

Hisham
yeah alsana 7elo :D … but its not a girl problem :D
bahloul
thanks man :) and tell u its not a girl … :P

holacarino

seems no other way than that :(

]]> By: M.Shaltaf http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14931 M.Shaltaf Tue, 11 Dec 2007 22:32:36 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14931 Naryat said every thing I would But you remembers me with Fairouz song "حبو بعضن" which says : بيقولوا الحب بيقتل الوقت و بيقولوا الوقت بيقتل الحب Its just the time who can do it Naryat said every thing I would
But you remembers me with Fairouz song “حبو بعضن” which says :
بيقولوا الحب بيقتل الوقت و بيقولوا الوقت بيقتل الحب

Its just the time who can do it

]]> By: lilaa http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14928 lilaa Tue, 11 Dec 2007 20:14:59 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14928 God, I hate this ! but believe me, rejection is not the right approach. being honest with them and telling them how u feel EXACTLY toward them will hurt them less, coz one day u will simply explode ! and that will diffinetly hurt them the most. when it comes to relationships, It is better to make it as clear as possible ! God, I hate this ! but believe me, rejection is not the right approach. being honest with them and telling them how u feel EXACTLY toward them will hurt them less, coz one day u will simply explode ! and that will diffinetly hurt them the most.

when it comes to relationships, It is better to make it as clear as possible !

]]> By: علوش http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14927 علوش Tue, 11 Dec 2007 19:29:42 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14927 همممم، هي صعبة يا موفق :pouty: بتصير معي أحياناً، بس فجأة بيطلع صوت داخلي بيأنبني، إنو الزلمة ما عمل معي شي غلط حتى أكرهوا، فحاول تتفاعل معو بايجابية ولو شيء بسيط، يعني أكيد ما رح يضل معك طول العمر، هي لحظات بسيطة. همممم، هي صعبة يا موفق :pouty:

بتصير معي أحياناً، بس فجأة بيطلع صوت داخلي بيأنبني، إنو الزلمة ما عمل معي شي غلط حتى أكرهوا، فحاول تتفاعل معو بايجابية ولو شيء بسيط، يعني أكيد ما رح يضل معك طول العمر، هي لحظات بسيطة.

]]> By: chikapappi http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14926 chikapappi Tue, 11 Dec 2007 19:10:24 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14926 You got me confused there! Hmm.. you love someone who doesn't love you back walla shoo! Ok, be forward & say it if they still don't know AW - if they don't seem to like / love you back, back off then :tongue: You got me confused there! Hmm.. you love someone who doesn’t love you back walla shoo! Ok, be forward & say it if they still don’t know AW - if they don’t seem to like / love you back, back off then :tongue:

]]> By: Amjad http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14923 Amjad Tue, 11 Dec 2007 17:16:54 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14923 Do not think much .. just let things flow normally .. as long as you do not hurt them (and you do not by just not being able to love them) .. then you cannot do much about it. It is not that they love you and you don't love them, it is more that you cannot find a common things between you and them, while they believe they can. Do not think much .. just let things flow normally .. as long as you do not hurt them (and you do not by just not being able to love them) .. then you cannot do much about it. It is not that they love you and you don’t love them, it is more that you cannot find a common things between you and them, while they believe they can.

]]> By: Maher http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14922 Maher Tue, 11 Dec 2007 16:41:12 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14922 Oh man! This sucks! if i were you i would be so honest with them! and i mean so honest! just tell them the truth man! no matter what! Oh man! This sucks!
if i were you i would be so honest with them!
and i mean so honest! just tell them the truth man! no matter what!

]]> By: 7usam http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14920 7usam Tue, 11 Dec 2007 16:06:21 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14920 thanks Naryat for the post :D thanks Naryat for the post :D

]]> By: holacarino http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14919 holacarino Tue, 11 Dec 2007 15:18:11 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14919 will I hate to say it, but if they still bothering you.. there is no way just telling them the truth ..don't act and don't be rude...be honest. it seems that they can't get your message. oh :pinch: , I really hate that feeling. best of luck brother :smile: will I hate to say it, but if they still bothering you.. there is no way just telling them the truth ..don’t act and don’t be rude…be honest.
it seems that they can’t get your message.

oh :pinch: , I really hate that feeling.

best of luck brother :smile:

]]> By: bahloul http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14918 bahloul Tue, 11 Dec 2007 15:16:14 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14918 man i saw like this position in my life, and i think that naryat kaffat w waffat, but one thing i want to add, honestly don't be nice with them, never be like that unless you are sure they stop looking to you as their other half, because any nice thing from your side will not be understood as it is from friend or some thing like that, it will be understood as you approach her, and really may Allah help you both, it is a hard position for the both. w etzakkar eno " Elbo3od jafa" so try to be away man. :face: man i saw like this position in my life, and i think that naryat kaffat w waffat, but one thing i want to add, honestly don’t be nice with them, never be like that unless you are sure they stop looking to you as their other half, because any nice thing from your side will not be understood as it is from friend or some thing like that, it will be understood as you approach her, and really may Allah help you both, it is a hard position for the both.
w etzakkar eno ” Elbo3od jafa” so try to be away man. :face:

]]> By: Hisham http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14917 Hisham Tue, 11 Dec 2007 15:10:54 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14917 Man it is a situation that keeps getting harder each day you just stay silent, just be ohnest in both cases if they like you or you just like them. Nothing is better than the truth, you know how much guys can be bad and can turn any situation with a girl upside down. For it is nice words... that sometimes can help a guy -who is not even close to her desired average- to won her heart. It is words that will help you to solve any tuff situation with anyone in your life. Especially "ento el shwam lsankom 7elo" Man it is a situation that keeps getting harder each day you just stay silent, just be ohnest in both cases if they like you or you just like them. Nothing is better than the truth, you know how much guys can be bad and can turn any situation with a girl upside down.
For it is nice words… that sometimes can help a guy -who is not even close to her desired average- to won her heart. It is words that will help you to solve any tuff situation with anyone in your life.
Especially “ento el shwam lsankom 7elo”

]]> By: Naryat http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14915 Naryat Tue, 11 Dec 2007 14:18:14 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14915 One of the toughest questions ever... If you mean normal every day life people, as long as they do not push you to the limit it is ok to ignore them as much as possible and be nice to them if you have to deal with them... BAS!! If you are speaking about a girl, a potential life partner, it might get really bad :pinch: If you don't speak clearly and tell that "I do not love you", the other side will keep making excuses and explanation to negate the possibility of being rejected... In these issues one must be so very clear... whether in demanding people's love or in reacting to people's love... although truth might hurt, but it is always better said... Keep in mind that there is always a possibility of receiving a reply such as: "Who said that i love you or ask for your attention!" or: "you got me wrong! I am just a caring friend!" or: "any ways its not like that I LOVE you, its just some admiration!!"... m3lesh, even if you are 100% sure it is LOVE that they feel towards you, always remind yourself that what they are doing is just a way of defending there self image in front of you and themselves... so just endure, remember that you are in the stronger position... B3deen, depending on the type of people you decide your way of dealing with them... If you do not like them AT ALL, or if they are from the kind that keeps trying hoping they will posess you one day, or they were insistive, or they were from that kind that beleive they can hypnotize you and steal your heart, or they were from the kind that lives on hope no matter for how long and you feel this false hope might disturb their lives, then you'd better end every thing with them so that both side get themselves free from this experiment... If they were from that gorgeous type of people that forgets without grudge and are able of going on in their lives seeing you every day and smiling to you and treating you as a precious friend regardless of every thing, then these are the best friends to keep... just DO NOT lose them, what so ever!! :smile: OMG!! :w00t: its a long comment!! loooooool 2al y3nika2enno mesh 3arfe o tfaja2t :tongue: :lol: One of the toughest questions ever…
If you mean normal every day life people, as long as they do not push you to the limit it is ok to ignore them as much as possible and be nice to them if you have to deal with them…
BAS!!
If you are speaking about a girl, a potential life partner, it might get really bad :pinch:
If you don’t speak clearly and tell that “I do not love you”, the other side will keep making excuses and explanation to negate the possibility of being rejected… In these issues one must be so very clear… whether in demanding people’s love or in reacting to people’s love… although truth might hurt, but it is always better said…
Keep in mind that there is always a possibility of receiving a reply such as: “Who said that i love you or ask for your attention!” or: “you got me wrong! I am just a caring friend!” or: “any ways its not like that I LOVE you, its just some admiration!!”… m3lesh, even if you are 100% sure it is LOVE that they feel towards you, always remind yourself that what they are doing is just a way of defending there self image in front of you and themselves… so just endure, remember that you are in the stronger position…

B3deen, depending on the type of people you decide your way of dealing with them…
If you do not like them AT ALL, or if they are from the kind that keeps trying hoping they will posess you one day, or they were insistive, or they were from that kind that beleive they can hypnotize you and steal your heart, or they were from the kind that lives on hope no matter for how long and you feel this false hope might disturb their lives, then you’d better end every thing with them so that both side get themselves free from this experiment…

If they were from that gorgeous type of people that forgets without grudge and are able of going on in their lives seeing you every day and smiling to you and treating you as a precious friend regardless of every thing, then these are the best friends to keep… just DO NOT lose them, what so ever!! :smile:
OMG!! :w00t: its a long comment!! loooooool
2al y3nika2enno mesh 3arfe o tfaja2t :tongue: :lol:

]]> By: Garaba http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14914 Garaba Tue, 11 Dec 2007 13:54:28 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14914 u welcome loooooooooooooooooooooooool :wink: :tongue: :biggrin: :lol: u welcome loooooooooooooooooooooooool
:wink: :tongue: :biggrin: :lol:

]]> By: The Memory Remains http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14912 The Memory Remains Tue, 11 Dec 2007 12:34:14 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14912 <strong>i know you man , yes :smile: You can be rude and be honest with them as well .. but the question is WOULD YOU be rude to them ?? I can Kill a Person , But Would I Do It ?? Dear its a problem when you are ready to go with a person to the most extreme zone in his/her mind , dont think its a bless .. Bless You :tongue: </strong> i know you man , yes :smile:

You can be rude and be honest with them as well .. but the question is

WOULD YOU be rude to them ??

I can Kill a Person , But Would I Do It ??
Dear
its a problem when you are ready to go with a person to the most extreme zone in his/her mind , dont think its a bless ..

Bless You :tongue:

]]> By: Qabbani http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14911 Qabbani Tue, 11 Dec 2007 12:07:17 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14911 Man , you know me well, its something not easy for me just hurt them like that cuz i see bad things in their souls or something not suitable with me . and also you know how much i can go with them , and how Rude and mean i can be man even if i didn't pretend , even i ACT 100% like someone dose not care or like u , they back and smile in my face like i did nothing for them , and act normal ... should i be RUDE and Tell it in their face or what !!!!!! Man ,

you know me well, its something not easy for me just hurt them like that cuz i see bad things in their souls or something not suitable with me . and also you know how much i can go with them , and how Rude and mean i can be

man even if i didn’t pretend , even i ACT 100% like someone dose not care or like u , they back and smile in my face like i did nothing for them , and act normal …

should i be RUDE and Tell it in their face or what !!!!!!

]]> By: The Memory Remains http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14910 The Memory Remains Tue, 11 Dec 2007 11:48:55 +0000 http://muoffaq.qabbani.net/2007/12/11/loved-feel/#comment-14910 <strong>My Dear You are hurting your soul instead of being honest with those ppl , yes , truth hurts and it kills sometimes ... but it wont hurt as much as what are you doing to your soul at this moment. Sometimes, ppl get sick of wearing that mask all the time, i mean pretending to love someone just to satisfy him/her while you cant even look in his/her face. A Person do that and say to himself : im not happy but i can see happiness in the his/her eyes , and thats enough at this moment. What A Weird Life My Friend .. Weird.</strong> My Dear

You are hurting your soul instead of being honest with those ppl , yes , truth hurts and it kills sometimes … but it wont hurt as much as what are you doing to your soul at this moment.

Sometimes, ppl get sick of wearing that mask all the time, i mean pretending to love someone just to satisfy him/her while you cant even look in his/her face.

A Person do that and say to himself : im not happy but i can see happiness in the his/her eyes , and thats enough at this moment.

What A Weird Life My Friend .. Weird.

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