A Question about Being loved
What should someone do?
When find there’s MANY love him/her
When He/she cant Share them that feel NOT EVEN LIKE THEM IN ANY WAY
When u do your best, to be as good as u can with them (Ignore ur feelings against them) and simply u cant keep on ,
When they keep acting cute , kind and smile in ur face NO MATTER HOW U REJECT THEM
When u almost Hurt them , and Again u find them there telling others how much they love you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am really confused, there’s a kind of people i really cant stand at all i cant be with them in the same place , its something related to my soul , its something i cant control ,
I feel mean and upset > i am really not into hurting someone but i cant share any feeling with them :( in the same time being around them brings me a heavy feeling over my chest
what should i do ?
p.s: Thanks Garaba Again ;)
December 11th, 2007 at 1:48 pm
My Dear
You are hurting your soul instead of being honest with those ppl , yes , truth hurts and it kills sometimes … but it wont hurt as much as what are you doing to your soul at this moment.
Sometimes, ppl get sick of wearing that mask all the time, i mean pretending to love someone just to satisfy him/her while you cant even look in his/her face.
A Person do that and say to himself : im not happy but i can see happiness in the his/her eyes , and thats enough at this moment.
What A Weird Life My Friend .. Weird.
December 11th, 2007 at 2:07 pm
you know me well, its something not easy for me just hurt them like that cuz i see bad things in their souls or something not suitable with me . and also you know how much i can go with them , and how Rude and mean i can be
man even if i didn’t pretend , even i ACT 100% like someone dose not care or like u , they back and smile in my face like i did nothing for them , and act normal …
should i be RUDE and Tell it in their face or what !!!!!!
December 11th, 2007 at 2:34 pm
i know you man , yes
You can be rude and be honest with them as well .. but the question is
WOULD YOU be rude to them ??
I can Kill a Person , But Would I Do It ??
Dear
its a problem when you are ready to go with a person to the most extreme zone in his/her mind , dont think its a bless ..
Bless You
December 11th, 2007 at 3:54 pm
u welcome loooooooooooooooooooooooool
December 11th, 2007 at 4:18 pm
One of the toughest questions ever…
If you mean normal every day life people, as long as they do not push you to the limit it is ok to ignore them as much as possible and be nice to them if you have to deal with them…
BAS!!
If you are speaking about a girl, a potential life partner, it might get really bad
If you don’t speak clearly and tell that “I do not love you”, the other side will keep making excuses and explanation to negate the possibility of being rejected… In these issues one must be so very clear… whether in demanding people’s love or in reacting to people’s love… although truth might hurt, but it is always better said…
Keep in mind that there is always a possibility of receiving a reply such as: “Who said that i love you or ask for your attention!” or: “you got me wrong! I am just a caring friend!” or: “any ways its not like that I LOVE you, its just some admiration!!”… m3lesh, even if you are 100% sure it is LOVE that they feel towards you, always remind yourself that what they are doing is just a way of defending there self image in front of you and themselves… so just endure, remember that you are in the stronger position…
B3deen, depending on the type of people you decide your way of dealing with them…
If you do not like them AT ALL, or if they are from the kind that keeps trying hoping they will posess you one day, or they were insistive, or they were from that kind that beleive they can hypnotize you and steal your heart, or they were from the kind that lives on hope no matter for how long and you feel this false hope might disturb their lives, then you’d better end every thing with them so that both side get themselves free from this experiment…
If they were from that gorgeous type of people that forgets without grudge and are able of going on in their lives seeing you every day and smiling to you and treating you as a precious friend regardless of every thing, then these are the best friends to keep… just DO NOT lose them, what so ever!!
its a long comment!! loooooool
OMG!!
2al y3nika2enno mesh 3arfe o tfaja2t
December 11th, 2007 at 5:10 pm
Man it is a situation that keeps getting harder each day you just stay silent, just be ohnest in both cases if they like you or you just like them. Nothing is better than the truth, you know how much guys can be bad and can turn any situation with a girl upside down.
For it is nice words… that sometimes can help a guy -who is not even close to her desired average- to won her heart. It is words that will help you to solve any tuff situation with anyone in your life.
Especially “ento el shwam lsankom 7elo”
December 11th, 2007 at 5:16 pm
man i saw like this position in my life, and i think that naryat kaffat w waffat, but one thing i want to add, honestly don’t be nice with them, never be like that unless you are sure they stop looking to you as their other half, because any nice thing from your side will not be understood as it is from friend or some thing like that, it will be understood as you approach her, and really may Allah help you both, it is a hard position for the both.
w etzakkar eno ” Elbo3od jafa” so try to be away man.
December 11th, 2007 at 5:18 pm
will I hate to say it, but if they still bothering you.. there is no way just telling them the truth ..don’t act and don’t be rude…be honest.
it seems that they can’t get your message.
oh
, I really hate that feeling.
best of luck brother
December 11th, 2007 at 6:06 pm
thanks Naryat for the post :D
December 11th, 2007 at 6:41 pm
Oh man! This sucks!
if i were you i would be so honest with them!
and i mean so honest! just tell them the truth man! no matter what!
December 11th, 2007 at 7:16 pm
Do not think much .. just let things flow normally .. as long as you do not hurt them (and you do not by just not being able to love them) .. then you cannot do much about it. It is not that they love you and you don’t love them, it is more that you cannot find a common things between you and them, while they believe they can.
December 11th, 2007 at 9:10 pm
You got me confused there! Hmm.. you love someone who doesn’t love you back walla shoo! Ok, be forward & say it if they still don’t know AW - if they don’t seem to like / love you back, back off then
December 11th, 2007 at 9:29 pm
همممم، هي صعبة يا موفق
بتصير معي أحياناً، بس فجأة بيطلع صوت داخلي بيأنبني، إنو الزلمة ما عمل معي شي غلط حتى أكرهوا، فحاول تتفاعل معو بايجابية ولو شيء بسيط، يعني أكيد ما رح يضل معك طول العمر، هي لحظات بسيطة.
December 11th, 2007 at 10:14 pm
God, I hate this ! but believe me, rejection is not the right approach. being honest with them and telling them how u feel EXACTLY toward them will hurt them less, coz one day u will simply explode ! and that will diffinetly hurt them the most.
when it comes to relationships, It is better to make it as clear as possible !
December 12th, 2007 at 12:32 am
Naryat said every thing I would
But you remembers me with Fairouz song “حبو بعضن” which says :
بيقولوا الحب بيقتل الوقت و بيقولوا الوقت بيقتل الحب
Its just the time who can do it
December 12th, 2007 at 1:06 am
I know
Naryat
am talking about normal life :) ,
the part about if i mean a girl , yeah i know this Really will i have been in such situation and end it right , 7amdellah
about the other kinds :) thank you a lot i got ur Idea, seems no matter how much i avoid this solution it seems that all agree it is the best to do …
Hisham
yeah alsana 7elo :D … but its not a girl problem :D
bahloul
thanks man :) and tell u its not a girl … :P
holacarino
seems no other way than that :(
December 12th, 2007 at 1:16 am
Your welcome
Maher
i hate to do that but seems all recommend that …
Amjad
Oh man zaman 3ank :) welcome back ,
its as u say man , but in some how i cant stand being with them even try to avoid
chikapappi
they love me i dont love them AT ALL
علوش
ما اعم اادر , اد ما حاولت اني ابعد ما اجتمع في\فيهم ما عم اادر طيئهم ولا اني استمتع بوجودهم , خلص فيهم شغلات ما بحبها ولا بإدر استوعبها بس ما عم تصل اشاراتي انه انا مابدي ياهم
و شو ما عملت معهم ما بزعلو ولا بخفو
lilaa
Thanks :)
December 12th, 2007 at 9:37 am
well thats something touching , actually am facing this problem from both sides , to love and be loved ..
its hard to be loved by a person that u dont like and have nth. to do with it , and hardest when u love a person that he’s always there but u cant reach him !!!
December 12th, 2007 at 9:55 am
ah this is is a tough one..i’ve experienced it both ways numerous times..and i still can not give an advice..im just so glad that now i have the sorry i am happily married line…
December 12th, 2007 at 11:54 am
You have to be honest and let them know. this person will hurt now of course, but it is less pain than later on when they love you even more.
Or you can just avoid them :) kidding!
December 12th, 2007 at 5:28 pm
Qabbani,
yyyyyyyep! hard, but seems la ma5raj
7usam,
hala 3ammi looooooooool
December 13th, 2007 at 10:13 am
ايش يا عنيف
قلت لي اللي بيحبو كتير
يا عم
القلب و ما يريد و العين و ما تشوف
انجوي هالحب مرات الواحد بيحب يخدع نفسه و يفكر انهالطرف التاني بيحبه بس هاي مش مشكلتك
اخرتهم يفهموا
December 13th, 2007 at 1:51 pm
Wleeeeeee
December 13th, 2007 at 8:27 pm
You have to be honest to them OR you could just act neutral and like you dont understand until they give up on their own. Humans do get bored and have limits..
December 16th, 2007 at 11:35 pm
i know that feeling ya Qabbani,
it makes one feel bad… the worst feeling of all.
bas give urself a chance.. sometimes it turns into something begad