Good Listening

One
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To be a Good listener , is it something any one can do?? , learn , and be good in it ?!!or it consider as Gift ?
Unless you think There’s nothing called Good Listening
Two
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Is it Good to be a good listener ? specially when it between opposite gender??
I mean dose it consider” JUST ” listing ,dose it go far to be under “CARE” class and it become something critical later, or nothing related its just something normal in relationships
Three
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If you really want to talk about something personal , do u prefer talk to someone dear and bad listener, or talk to someone with normal relationship but very good listener??
Four
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Can you handle it ,to be a good listener??
Tags: life, listen, mind's talk, Questions, relationship, Thought's
November 30th, 2007 at 6:40 am
I think I’m a good listener because people usually share their problems and concerns with me even if I don’t know them very will.
So that makes a good listener right?
November 30th, 2007 at 10:14 am
I usually need a good listener to listen to me, but i am not one myself
November 30th, 2007 at 10:43 am
yeah that mean so , but what i want to know is it easy to be a good listener ,
with all this problem you hear and talks, dose it effect you , put u down ,
secratea
Why?? this is one of the Q’s , why u prefer a good listener , why not a very good close friend , or any one else u you …
November 30th, 2007 at 10:43 am
yeah that mean so , but what i want to know is it easy to be a good listener ,
with all this problem you hear and talks, dose it effect you , put u down ,
secratea
Why?? this is one of the Q’s , why u prefer a good listener , why not a very good close friend , or any one else u you kow…
November 30th, 2007 at 11:30 am
No it’s not easy at all to be a good listenerโฆ
Sometimes it brings problems to u besides feeling depressed & disappointed…
especially if u can’t do anything 4 that person.
November 30th, 2007 at 12:29 pm
unless its boring i am a good listener :)
November 30th, 2007 at 12:54 pm
the one who I will share my problems “or whatever” with should be a good listener + good friend…otherwise, I hold my peace.
you reminded me of this:
Link here
November 30th, 2007 at 2:15 pm
Listening to other person is a very important thing to me.. because someday someone have to listen to what i am going to say!
November 30th, 2007 at 4:49 pm
ONE: I think everybody can be a good listener but some people are very selfish,and they don’t like to give from themselves.
TWO: It is good to be a good listener, it shows a soft side in the person,and it strenghten relationships ..
THREE:If I need to talk,I would prefer to talk to someone dear and closte but if they are not going to listen, give me attention and help then I rather talk to someone else who would listen..
FOUR:I am a very good listener..but I haven’t found anybody who can listen to me yet :(
November 30th, 2007 at 7:34 pm
ุงูุงุณุชู ุงุน ููุขุฎุฑูู ุดูุก ูุชูุฑ ู ูู ูุงูุง ุจุนุชูุฏ ุงูู ุนูุฏู ูุงูุตูุฉุ ูุฃููุง ุจุชุดุนุฑ ุงูุทุฑู ุงูุงุฎุฑ ุจุงูุงูุชู ุงู ุญุชู ูู ูุงูุช ู ุซูุง ู ุดููุฉ ูู ุงูุงู ุจุงูุฏู ุชุณุงุนุฏูุ ู ุน ุงูู ุงูุงุณุชู ุงุน ูุชูุฑ ุงุณูู ู ู ุงูููุงู ููู ูู ูุงุณ ูุชูุฑ ู ุง ุนูุฏูู ูุงูุดูุ ููุงุฏ ุงูุดูุก ุจุถุงูู ูู ู ุชุฑูุญ ุชุชููู ูุดุฎุต ูุจุงูุงุฎูุฑ ุชูุชุดู ุงูู ู ุง ูุงู ุนู ูุณู ุนู….:)
November 30th, 2007 at 8:56 pm
what did you say?
heehehhee
its hard to listen sometimes… even when you try really hard with some people its not possible to concentrate on what they say
November 30th, 2007 at 10:13 pm
In the university they tought us something about “active listening” bas ya raitni btabbe2!! wainak, i have solved my blog problem ;) you know what i mean :)
December 1st, 2007 at 12:15 am
ุฏููุง ุญุซูุง ุนูู ุญุณู ุงูุฅูุตุงุช , ูุงุฒู ูู ุง ุชุณู ุน ููุงุญุฏ ุจุญูู ู ุนู ุชุญุชุฑู ู ูุชุณู ุนูู ู ุด ุฒู ูู ูุงุณ ู ุฑุงุช ุจุชูุงููู ุจุชููุช ุญูุงููู ููู ุจุณู ุนูู ููุง ููุจ ูุฌุฃุฉ ุจุญูู ู ุน ูุงุณ ุชุงูู ูุฅูุช ุจุชููู ูุณู ุนู ุชุญูู ู ุนุงู ุจู ูุถูุน ู ุนูู , ุนูุฌุฏ ุงููู ุจุชุตุฑู ููู ุจูุฒู ู ู ุนููู ูุฅูู ูุงุฏุง ุงูุชุตุฑู ูุง ููู ุนู ุงุญุชุฑุงู ู ุฅูู , ูู ูุงุณ ููู ุทุจูุนุชูุง ู ุง ุจุชูุตุช ููุจุญูู ู ุนูุง ุณูุงุก ุฅูุชุง ููุง ุบูุฑู …
ูู ูุงุณ ููุฏูุง ูููููู ู ูุตุชูู ุฃูุซุฑ ู ู ุฅููู ูุญููุง ููู ูุงุณ ููุฏูุง ูููููู ูุญูู ุฃูุซุฑ ูู ุง ุนูุฏูู ุตุจุฑ ููุณู ุนูุง ุญุฏุง ููู ูุงุณ ุจุณู ุนูุง ูููููููุง ุญูู ููู ูุงุณ ุจุณู ุนูุง ูุฅูู ุจุชุนุฒ ุนูููู ูุจูู ูู ุฃู ุฑู ูุญุณุจ ุงููู ูุฏุงู ู …….
December 1st, 2007 at 8:40 am
im one of the worst listeners ever,
December 1st, 2007 at 8:43 am
other than i dont really concentrate because i da start thinking of other things in my mind, i dont hear good
oops
December 1st, 2007 at 10:20 am
i think that the issue is not to find a friend who is good listener only, he or she have to be also a wise and care about u, if u want only to talk to some body and stop on that then you can talk to Allah, Allah will listen to u and help u.
for me i used to talk to any of my friends about my problems, mistakes, and dreams, but lately i find that all of that was worng, becuase who care about u is not many people not because they are bad, no , but because every one try to find some one who listen to him and care about, so we have to find the right person who can listen, care and try to help.
December 1st, 2007 at 8:53 pm
well , that’s nice , for me even its boring like hell am a good listener
Jumana
nice :) and thanks for the link
Maher
well your right , but trust me , even if u are a bad listener , when u want to talk you will find who listen
December 1st, 2007 at 9:32 pm
#4 well it seems that it is a general problem, for me i find who i can talk partial to many , i cant talk to one every thing i want :) , for me its not just a good listener thing , i need some one who can push me right to talk …
nawrasbird
ุงูุญู ุฏ ููู , ุงูุณุคุงู ุงูู ุจุชุธูู ุงูู ูู ุงูุตูุฉ ูููู ููุง ุงูุชู ุฎููุชููุง ูููู ุุ
Dino$
yeah some people are BAD talker :D that’s why :P
Jasmina
Wow about your blog am so Glad, good for u bent 5alti :)
December 1st, 2007 at 9:41 pm
“ูู ูุงุณ ููุฏูุง ูููููู ู ูุตุชูู ุฃูุซุฑ ู ู ุฅููู ูุญููุง ููู ูุงุณ ููุฏูุง ูููููู ูุญูู ุฃูุซุฑ ูู ุง ุนูุฏูู ุตุจุฑ ููุณู ุนูุง ุญุฏุง ”
ุดูุฑุง ุฃูู
manal y
Yeah i know that about u :P
bahloul
thank you man , but you know the part of Talking to Allah is a bit hard , cuz first of all you need to be in a good leverl of Eman so u can feel Allah listen to you , add to that , you really sometime need to talk to some one and hear from him even ” Hmmm ” :)
December 2nd, 2007 at 10:39 am
ูุงู ุงูุตูุฉ ูุงูุช ุนูุฏู ุจุณ ุจููุณ ุงูููุช ุชุฃุซุฑุช ุจูุงุณ ูุชูุฑ ูุงู ุนูุฏูู ุญุณู ุงุณุชู ุงุน ุบูุฑ ุทุจูุนูุ ูุชุจูู ุงูุญูุงุฉ ุฃุฎุฐ ูุนุทุงุก ุญุชู ุจุงูุตูุงุช.
December 2nd, 2007 at 11:35 am
mmm..
late arrival…
i will not comment
December 2nd, 2007 at 4:06 pm
mm, nice post Really :)
a7la shy ennak tkon mostamme3 ,,mu b kol el mawakef ,,,
w thats depend 3la el nas ely enta 2a3ed ma3ahum , w el topic ely 3m yotanakash fee !!! ,,
December 2nd, 2007 at 7:15 pm
i want to be the best listener in the world
December 2nd, 2007 at 7:51 pm
zay ma bedk :(
vagueraz
thanks :),
ุงููุบุฉ ุงููุงุจุงูู
welcome to my place :)
i hope u do
yeah it depend :)
December 3rd, 2007 at 8:39 pm
To be a good listener you must have two ears and to have a great capacity of empathy.
Regards from Spain
December 3rd, 2007 at 11:49 pm
welcome to my place and things for pass by :)
December 4th, 2007 at 5:08 am
believe it or not, im not a good listener. speak ,or not. some people, they’re just dont like to talk aka “less talkers” who feels speech is silver and silence is golden! and when you talk less you bound to listen…